Destination Not Found.
Thing’s I’ve learned.

Just because you’re single doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world.
Every time the “feels” creep in think of something you want to do that your ex didn’t approve of or even better, go do it.

Time to get in shape. Think of every pound you lose as a way to separate yourself from your old life. Burn that stuff off and let your emotions push you farther than before.

Stop and get coffee somewhere. I hate coffee but Starbucks and I are getting very acquainted at 6:15am. It makes my day better.

Don’t trust your best friends to fix it for you or be your shoulder to cry on. This ish is messy. Sometimes it’s best you figure it out.
My biggest emotional support right now is a guy I raced in town one night and swapped contact info and now he has become one of my closest friends simply because he asks how I’m doing and goes out of his way to keep me distracted on the weekends.

Change your soap, deodorant, lotion, cologne or whatever. Start out new in everything and have nothing to associate yourself with your old self.

Just remember you’re awesome.

There is a reason you are sitting up at midnight, eyes red & puffy, watching videos of humans being good to one another. Watching proposals that show a kind of love that can be enviable and extreme. Bursting at the seams.

You want it too. No matter how many times we twist and morph that word into something that gets flung around and pushed out and falsified and changed for the sake of cheap commercialism, you want it. You want to believe it is still out there.

You want someone to show up for you. Man. Woman. Friend. Lover. We might all need to learn how to take care of that delicate thing better. So it doesn’t break so often. So we don’t devalue you with our careless human hands. You might need to change things. You might need to grow more. Know your weaknesses and resolve to be better. Get help. Tell someone. But don’t go another day thinking you can’t have it. Or that you can’t give it away.

I want that kind of love. The kind of love that is awkward and uncomfortable. And it makes something inside of you want to explode. And it isn’t always pretty but it promises to make you feel alive. I want it. In friendships. In family. In relationships. All of it.

Hannah Brencher

holding this close to my heart right now. 

(via tarverbchtl)

Perfect.

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Middle class probs

So found out today that I can’t rent the apartment I wanted because I “make to much money” Not sure what sense that makes. But it is what it is.

Basically being a white male age 25 with a middle class income just means that you will be broke because you will pay more for housing and insurance than anyone else. Then hear how great you have it in life.

I’m running into a multitude of issues right now. It’s hard to adjust after everything changing drastically in your life. Nothing I can’t overcome but I am finding it harder to find happiness.

I’ve spent 3 years constantly making sure someone else besides myself was happy and now that I don’t have to do that I honestly don’t know what exsctly makes me happy besides making other people happy. Instead I work extra hours for no pay and spend extra hours at the gym to just avoid going “home” because crashing on mom’s couch with headphones to drown out everything is not how I saw myself at 25. I have amazing friends and a even better family. But I just don’t feel like jumping up and clicking my heels with joy lately.

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milkywaysted:

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glassbottomairplane:

Cool ghost photography by surrealist photographer Cristopher McKenney.

No

This is frightening i like it

this is awesome

meme4u:

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showing your friend something you know they would flip out over and they say “I’ve already seen it”

no

i was supposed to be the hero

beardsbluntsbroncos:

It’ll piss you off.

beardsbluntsbroncos:

It’ll piss you off.